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Personal experiences, shopping guides and thoughts on life as a man in a dress.
October 03, 2026
Finally Tights Season Again: Nylons, Ankle Boots and Evening Walks
At 10 to 15 degrees my favourite season begins: tights under a skirt, with ankle boots and a light jacket. Why I love them and what my evening walks look like.
April 05, 2024
Skirt and Heels on a Business Trip
A business trip becomes the perfect excuse to wear a skirt and boots to the hotel bar — and a reminder that nobody is watching as closely as you think.
August 09, 2023
Wearing a Dress as a Man in Summer?
Body hair, social conditioning, and the marketing history of women's razors — a look at whether men can wear dresses in summer. Short answer: yes, obviously.
June 23, 2023
Wearing a Skirt and Pumps to the Office?
The first time going to work alone in a blouse, blazer, and skirt — and how to bring up the topic with people around you without turning it into a big drama.
June 09, 2023
Wedding Fashion for Men: Elegant Dresses and Skirts for Your Big Day
From kilts to tulle dresses to rock 'n' roll skirts — elegant wedding-day fashion for grooms who want to trade the classic suit for something bolder.
June 04, 2023
Get married as a man in a wedding dress?
Daring, daring: getting married as a man in a wedding dress is still a rare sight. A personal story about a very unconventional wedding day.
May 29, 2023
My husband wears women’s clothing – how do I deal with it?
My husband wears women's clothing – how do I deal with it? Communication and honest acceptance are the key words, not the clothes themselves.
May 22, 2023
I was in the store wearing highheels and lingerie (part 2/2)
Part two of a corset-shopping story: how an evening on Hamburg's Reeperbahn turned into an unexpectedly relaxed try-on session in high heels and lingerie.
May 19, 2023
Special trip to the Hamburg “Kiez” (part 1/2)
Moin Hamburg, moin high heels: a couple's evening stroll through the Reeperbahn turns into a search for the right size corset (part 1 of 2).
May 15, 2023
Man dressing up as a woman: Carnival & Mardi Gras – more than just a carnival gag?
Dressing up as a woman for Carnival or Mardi Gras is more than a gag. Tips on outfits, tights and makeup for men who want to go all in.
May 14, 2023
As a man in high heels – men wearing heels
Why do men wear high heels, and what does it actually feel like? A personal take on style, confidence and other people's opinions.
May 14, 2023
My husband is wearing high heels
Can a man wear pumps? Hell yes. A first-person account of the first steps in high heels, where to buy them, and learning to walk with confidence.
May 13, 2023
These Wedge Sandals You Need to Have
A quick pick of wedge sandals worth adding to your closet — easy to pair with summer dresses or casual trousers, and genuinely comfortable to wear.
May 11, 2023
Man simply wears (no) women’s clothes
“You just don't do that.” An opinion piece on the unwritten rules that keep men from wearing dresses, skirts and heels — and why they deserve pushback.
May 09, 2023
At night all skirts are gray (blue)
At night, all skirts are gray (blue): a business trip, a sleepless hotel night, and a quietly daring walk down the corridor in a skirt and heels.
May 09, 2023
How to Find the Right Dress as a Man: Tips for the Perfect Fit
From sizing and body shape to shopping online without pressure — practical, honest advice for men on finding a dress that actually fits and feels right.
May 03, 2023
Sleep Meditation: How to Get Your Sleep Problems Under Control
A simple step-by-step meditation routine for falling asleep, plus the most common causes of sleep trouble — stress, your sleep environment, caffeine, and more.
May 01, 2023
Buy lingerie as a man
A Christmas market, a bit of mulled wine, and a spontaneous trip to a lingerie store together with his girlfriend — buying lingerie as a man, in detail.
April 28, 2023
Help my husband secretly dresses in women clothes
Help, my husband secretly dresses in women's clothes: why he does it, what it means (and doesn't mean), and how couples can talk about it openly.
April 22, 2023
Story: Room 245 – “Traveling with dresses”
Story: Room 245 — a vacation suitcase mix-up turns into an unplanned two weeks of traveling with dresses instead of the usual clothes.
April 14, 2023
Women's Dresses and Skirts for Men — Tips
A-line, wrap, and maxi dresses, kilts, pleated and pencil skirts, and how to handle compliments and pushback with confidence — a full styling guide for men.
April 11, 2023
Why is my husband wearing women’s clothes?
Why is my husband wearing women's clothes? Because he likes it. A short, honest reflection on telling a partner and being met with curiosity, not judgment.
April 09, 2023
Skirts for Men: The Different Styles and How to Wear Them
From the kilt and the sarong to pleated and wrap skirts — a personal, informative tour through men's skirt styles and how to wear each one with confidence.
April 02, 2023
Why do I wear women’s dresses?
Why do I wear women's dresses? A personal reflection on where the desire came from, what clothes really express, and why it isn't about gender at all.
March 26, 2023
My own world as a man in women’s clothes
Hello World: the first entry in a project the author once thought unthinkable — a personal look at why he wears women's clothes and what this blog is about.
March 21, 2023
My husband dresses like a woman – how to deal with a Cross-Dressed man?
My husband dresses like a woman — how do you deal with a cross-dressed man? Communication and honest acceptance matter more than the clothes themselves.
March 17, 2023
Men wearing skirts is it just a trend?
Men wearing skirts — just a trend, or something with a much longer history? A look at genderless fashion from Roman togas to the modern catwalk.
March 11, 2023
My world as a man in women clothes
Hello World: the first entry in a project the author once thought couldn't be real — his own world as a man in women's clothes, and why he started this blog.
January 27, 2023
Gender Bender
What does the term 'gender bender' actually mean, and why bending the unwritten rules of gender presentation is fine — as long as nobody preaches.
December 30, 2022
Vulnerable at Heart (New Year's Greetings)
A New Year's reflection written a year apart — on early momentum, sudden loss, gratitude for a father's acceptance, and why the words are left unchanged.
December 19, 2022
Blazer and Skirt at the Hotel Bar
A quiet Monday night in a strange city becomes a lesson in self-consciousness, a bartender's wisdom about regret, and why the stares matter less than you think.
December 14, 2022
Would You Wear Women's Clothes Every Day?
That question makes about as much sense as asking if you'd eat one meal every day — and there's no such thing as 'the' one women's clothing anyway.
December 01, 2022
Men in Heels, Skirts and Dresses – Just a Phase?
The catwalk has known it for a while, and now retail is catching up: men in skirts, heels, and dresses are becoming impossible to ignore.
November 24, 2022
Trending Dresses for Spring 2023
An overview of the top dress trends for spring/summer 2023 — which fabrics, silhouettes, and colors are set to dominate the new season.
November 19, 2022
Cocktail Dresses for Men – Can That Work?
Ever wondered what it would be like to wear cocktail dresses as a man, or if your husband started today? My favorite brands, tips, and first photos.
November 07, 2022
When Is a Man Allowed to Wear a Skirt?
The skirt was never purely a women's garment — yet in Central Europe, men who wear one still stand out and need real nerve to do it.
October 29, 2022
Dressing as a Woman for Halloween – Outfit Ideas 2023
Halloween is coming and you still don't know what to dress up as? There are endless (mostly terrible) costume ideas out there — here are my favorites.
June 29, 2022
The Man in a Summer Dress – Men in Dresses in Summer
Summer is in full swing again — so what do you actually wear, how short can it be, and which colors and fabrics work best? Let's talk dresses in meetings.
May 11, 2022
My First Time in a Skirt & Heels in Public
Yes, you read that right. I'm writing this about an hour after my first time out on the street as a man in a leather skirt, leggings, and ankle boots.
March 23, 2022
What Dress Shapes Are There?
Every man on the hunt for a new dress inevitably keeps asking the same question: which shape is actually right for me? Clothes make the man.
February 24, 2022
Flared Wrap / Bell Skirt with Spring Patterns
Scotch & Soda, known for quality — something you don't often get. This skirt's flared hem is nothing like what you'd expect from a typical bell skirt.
February 16, 2022
Going Out in Public as a Man in a Dress? 👀
I'm glad you found your way to this post. In the next few lines you'll get a little dreaming, some backstory, and the answer to how this project began.
February 12, 2022
Spring Dresses #Outfit #Inspiration
This project is nearly two months old now, and after hundreds of messages and comments, I'm finally answering the question I get asked most: where do you shop?